Faked out by the Pic
You have read them once you have read them 1000 times. The situation where a monger seeks out one of these working girls based off the picture provided on a site. Once they have secured the meet, the trip over to rendezvous location is filled with anticipation and hope of a great session.
Much to their dismay, often times, the girl in the picture is not the girl at the door. Sometimes, it is so way off it is laughable. But yet, the monger STILL goes for it and lives to tell about it, often times in excruciating prose.
Here are a few reasons for this phenomenon.
1. The small head is thinking for the big head: This happens all too often. You have that itch that needs to be scratched. You have spent a bunch of time calling around and you have finally settled on this person for the service. You have also spent a bunch of time driving to the location and now that you are here, you may as well get some service. As long as the girl is passable, you take the plunge.
2. The Little Blue Pill Strikes Again: Similar to the reason above, but different nonetheless. In anticipation for the meet, you have popped the pill so you can be ready for action when the time comes. You meet her and even though you may not be all that attracted to her, your raging boner just needs to find a warm crevice for relief.
3. Girls that are not as hot need to compensate in other ways: The same holds true for the hot girls who have tons of guys chasing them and fawning over them. They could do less in the bedroom but the men in their lives could care less because of their outward appearance. But in the escort game, the only thing that matters is having a good time and a mind blowing experience with a not so hot girl would constitute a good time.
What are you thoughts fellas?
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deltaalpha21074 :
Must comment on this I have and luckily but maybe once and that turned out pretty well do to the low cost have had good success. Reason is and take this to heart no matter how HOR*Y you are no matter ..even if the end of the world is tonight --If that ad appears way to good to be true ---Murphys law buddy you better believe it;s FAKE...plus only the hardest kind meaning rough ,drugged out will rely on placing the Model of the month ad offering everything on the plate with what appears to be Playmate of the Year and you get there only to find somebody switched her with Quasi moto's sister look that up...little humor there but I find this all too often. OH and another give away plain and simple no face pic or girl again looks like that super hot chick on the beach. Again looks too good to be true 10x out of 10 you were played. Now what to do ...I get to door usually say oh that hernia in my privates ---I have to run to doctor quick. Do what you have to do but that's your choice and kaching...word of simple advise .
discreetlyyourz :
There are an AMAZING number of phony phone numbers with these ads. I can understand a woman putting up a beautiful picture so you will be motivated to call her. But to put up a phony picture AND a false phone number? That's just a sick, college prank with teenagers with too much time on their hands. Now, a simple way to gauge the authenticity of the provider AND her phone number is to simply have her write her phone number on a napkin or a piece of paper. She can stand in front of a mirror and snap a selfie of herself holding the napkin up to the mirror. Now, the phone number she wants you to call is "married" to her real likeness. It would take quite an expert at PhotoShop to fake this type of authenticity any other way. No provider has that kind of time. Besides, genuine providers WANT you to call them, so they will use a genuine number. Beautiful picture + phony number = PRANK.
cchriswake :
There's only been one instance, and it was early in the game for me 07, when I was duped. I walked out on the hag. Was angry I drove over 20 mins and had a full hard on only to be let down by the deception. Luckily her unattractiveness quickly killed my boner and I was able to walk away without an erection mounting for all to see.
wanther :
Thing I have the most worry about is how to tell if someone is a drug user.
mrbig747 :
If it's not a provider with a website, I always google the phone # to see what comes up.
samperkins_420 :
If you find a girl on BP, you should ALWAYS do a Google image search. I use chrome browser so just have to right click on the pic, scroll down to "Search Google for Image," and then check the results. Quite often, ads will use pics from the public domain, usually a random hot actress. Also you can see if it is being used in a ton of ads in other cities. This is far from foolproof and isn't the only step you should take, but should always be done. Just like you should always google the phone #.
bradisbad01 :
After being faked out a couple of times, I've learned to spot the real deal. However do to the nature of things all the things a provider can do to establish legitimacy also compromises their safety and anonymity, but here are a few things you can do to not get faked out. I've found some legit providers even on BP. - research the number. See if she's has worked other cities. Some girls are local and don't travel but most of them do. Some girls change their number because of creepers and other drama but what they don't realize is their history is their credentials. - check the pictures. I've found that the higher quality pictures have been frauds. If there pics from a photographer with no selfie style pics that's a red flag. If the pictures show different outfits of just body parts and no face that's also cause for caution. If the providers has the exact same pictures and doesn't change them it's usually because they're not her or she no longer looks like that. Also look out for the pictures that use trick photography to make them appealing but deceitful. Every provider has a big butt from one inch away, or sitting on an object or with their back arched. What can't lie is a hip to waist from the front and a side profile. The same goes for breasts the side profile demonstrate size. Also don't fall for the good bra trick. Some of the ladies have let gravity get the better of them. Providers pics usually try to hide their flaws and show their assets. So if you can't see things like their stomach in any pictures she's hiding it. Women with big bellies also take pics flat on their backs to hide it. - video chat! If you see a video that means she has video chat capabilities there are tons of free apps that they could use to verify themselves. I've personally had providers show them selves on video. If a provider has a video that only shows their face and not their assets together with their face is usually an indicator of deceptive pictures. - also if a provider makes no effort at all to verify herself. No proof pics, No video, no past history and she doesn't have the "me or free"... Don't go. She isn't who she says she is our she's lazy and either way she doesn't deserve your money.
elwin4 :
On theeroticreview, be prepared to write a couple reviews to open the juicy details otherwise a monthly fee. The inability to write a self promoted review by an escort is dampened by money or effort but not impossible to work around by lying about "seeing" a couple of escorts. Your best bet is to privately contact another client and ask about the provider. An escort won't talk bad about themselves but a client will. If a provider writes their own review she'll be inclined to take a conservative approach to not create a sexual green light to take her down, where a guy will delve into it with an animalistic endeavor.
fallen__angel :
@pathen - Use theeroticreview. It's your best shot at finding reliable non-ROB providers that require screening, which protects the both of you. I'm sure that you could find someone to your liking there. Check it out.
elwin4 :
After some research I expect the girl at the door to be truthful as much as they expect me to pay them. If the price is low and the pics are outside of a motel room then I seriously doubt some things but I check their pics and hunt down their phone number. If it checks out then I'll call and tell them I'm picture conscious but look forward to a great session and have found many escorts which reviewed well.
pathen :
fallen_angel, if not BP, what do you recommend as a way to find escorts. Living in a small city, BP is pretty well the only show in town. No AMP's near by either.
vinnynyca :
I have been a hobbiest for a while, in different cities and states. 65% of the ads are Way mis-leading and BS, especially the BP. I have always have a hard time trying to weed out the bogus ones. Even when you do get the legit escort as far as the pics, then she gives you the BS of how she didn't mean to mis lead you on what she was willing to do or not. Going back to the "Big head Little head" decision and dissapointment. Honestly I have found that the Ampps are the way to go. The Value is more in line with the service and knowing that the girl in the pics is not what you will ever get, 90% of the time they are Physically beautiful, young 30y or under,and very willing to give you what you want and be fairly compensated for it. No ridiculous up sell , just fair. When you repeat you are greeted with even more enthusiasm because they remember what and how you like it and its a comfort level which they express with feelings that you benefit from. I think if escorts stopped playing F**** Games and just be upfront things would be more beneficial for all. Most of the Escorts have insecurity issues and take their revenge out on some poor bastard who just wants to nut and feel good about it, not like he got ripped off or whatever..... well you asked about what my thoughts were...be care flu what you ask
fallen__angel :
Not every monger is "fella", Einstein. And as far as your question, it's called NOT using sites like BP to set up a session. That site and others like it are notorious for bait n switches and out and out ROB's. Us hobbyists gotta use some common sense. But the world is full of idiots and this hobby obviously has more than its share.
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